question for woman

Would u rather not want to know he is going to one...or would u like him to tell you and would u be ok with him going ?

@wudifu: I'd want him to tell me and not sure if I'd be ok with that

@SunshineSwirl: ok....men do think with their other heads quite often and if men know that their mrs is open minded about anything and allow something like this sometimes...then the guy would always be more open to any kind of conversation and then there would automatically be more trust in a relationship and that is also what relationships are build on..like a foundation