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Have you had silent breakup before

My girlfriend of 10 years went silent. It reached a point i was only one making the calls, then i decided to stop (she was even making excuses to see me). We went one month without talking then she called once and asked why we never say hi. We talked like friends and ever since that call we havent talked for 5 months. My guess is we broke up without hurting (though it hurt me when i made decision to ignore her as well)
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Sounds like you've just drifted apart and neither side cared enough to question or make things right.
silentkev · 31-35, M
When she started avoiding the communications i tried to inquire whats wrong but everytime i could get the reply "u'm nothing" and if i pointed what is worrying me about her she would just say " its only you who is bothered by that" and after conversation if i said to her "goodby" all she could say was brief "ok" and hung up hurriedly. Anyway i think i saved myself further emotional baggage when i picked up the cue and stopped following up