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Have you had silent breakup before

My girlfriend of 10 years went silent. It reached a point i was only one making the calls, then i decided to stop (she was even making excuses to see me). We went one month without talking then she called once and asked why we never say hi. We talked like friends and ever since that call we havent talked for 5 months. My guess is we broke up without hurting (though it hurt me when i made decision to ignore her as well)
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Whenever anyone decides to leave me this is what they do
I have dealt with the same. Ppl are rude and cowards now. No one holds old fashioned values. Even friends do the ignoring thing. So how do u know you're still truly friends even if they reassure u no matter how "busy" they get. Ignoring could mean two different things. Use your words ppl
Exactly like just say whatever it is and let's be on the same page. This having to decode silence nonsense os retarded
silentkev · 31-35, M
Yes i guess they fear just to face you and tell you personally. So they'd rather avoid that by playing mind games and leaving you to guess. My take is that it should not happen to you more than once. If you enter the next relationship just smarten up and grow cold to the person as soon as your bf/gf starts careless mind games