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How to change your boyfriends attitude about life?

Theatens to cut and kill himself. Especially when we argue. Cries a lot and starts acting like he is having trouble breathing.
Exaggerates what I say.
Expresses a lot of self pity when he reminisces on his past emotions, like being suicidal since elementary school, smoking weed, and cutting. He is very privileged, with a car his parents bought him, a nice house and good education. Yet he hates them because they check up on him when he goes out and because they have goals for him. It gets annoying when he starts complaining, which is often, and especially how much of a cry baby he is when I do independent things like go out with friends. I don't want to break up but I don't know what to do about his attitude.
TestingLimitations · 31-35, M
You can't change people. You can try to teach them, but if they won't learn, you're likely just hurting yourself. You can't wait forever, hoping for someone to change. We are who we are, and it takes a lot of time to grow. Sometimes we have to let go of the people we care about.
TestingLimitations · 31-35, M
Also, he sounds like a spoiled brat.
Ynotisay · M
Based on what you shared you might want to think about moving on. Some people are black holes and bring you down to their level. They're not happy unless others are unhappy.
This man is a boy. Doesn't sound like he'll ever suck it up. Can't imagine being around that kind of person. Your call though.
abe182 · 46-50, M
Why is he your boyfriend again?
You probably should. You got yourself a man child.
There's only so much you can do. He's not your child, and he has to want to change it. And there are therapists whose job it is to help people who do want to change their attitudes and improve their lives.

 
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