Love is a pain

See, there is this person that I think I love. Supposedly she loves me too. But I can see very few signs of that. She responds really slowly but she isn't inactive: she posts and comments. Is this normal behaviour for someone's girlfriend? I get it that she likes talking to others and havings things to do but shouldn't the boybriend be a priority? Btw she wanted to be my gf. I don't know what to think anymore...Is it my BPD speaking or are my concerns legit? I'm just not sure of anything anymore...

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CuTiePi · F Best Comment

woman are fickle don't chase her and you will find out if she truly likes you. Don't let her play mind games its so cruel and confusing for guys. chill and talk to others in the meantime. probs not the BPD because other guys have the same problems

RevanUchiha · 22-25, M

I do that...but the BPD makes it empty...makes it really hard...

CuTiePi · F

I can guess that's probably true but ask other guys who don't have BPD and they are just as confused, I hope you get it sorted x

RevanUchiha · 22-25, M

@MissMathematics1: Thanks

CuTiePi · F

@RevanUchiha: your welcome love yourself first and wait on the right woman ..you will be able to tell if shes for you as she will want to be more responsive to your messages. btw thanks for b.A👍

RevanUchiha · 22-25, M

Okay