What do you think women want in a man?

I want to address the finances side of your question. I think there are certainly *some* women for who money talks. I don't think this is all women or even the majority, but it is out there.

But what about the successful woman in her late 20's/early 30's who has a career and makes good money herself. She works hard and wants to travel and see the world when she has time off work. She saves her salary for vacations. Is it wrong of her to want someone who can keep up? Does that make her "all about the money"?

Is [b]socio-economic compatibility[/b] a legitimate thing to consider when dating?

So what traits do I look for? Well, I could not be with someone who was not focused and motivated on setting and achieving goals in life, both career goals and personal goals ... someone who was ambitious and passionate about life, but who also knew how to sit quietly in front of a fireplace and contemplate the patterns made by the flames ... and maybe most important, humor is to me like oxygen, if you cannot make me laugh, then do not apply for the job.

I want a man who is intelligent, is into being fit and healthy, has a good sense of humor, values family and friends, is responsible and dependable. In bed, I want him to be an attentive lover, and a man who has a high sex drive. I've never been about what a man can give me materially or financially. For years during my marriage, I largely supported my family and made a good living. I never tossed it up in anyone's face. A relationship is teamwork, give and take, healthy and mature on all levels.

I wouldn't out right say money, but try getting someone to date you after telling them you don't have a job.

I just wish relationships were comprised of two people taking care of their own financial needs instead of relying on each other.

Money. And if any woman says different she is lying.

A fat bank account counts for a lot.

Different strokes for different folks

I think most want a man who they can depend on, who will listen, who will respect them, who is honest and communicates and has a sense of humor.