that moment when your old flame changes his mind and you're about to get married.

just that i waited for the flame for a good 3 years to come around. I swore and he swore he never would. Now that i moved on and he had a bad lady experience.... hes feeling regretful.

Doesn't sound like you have moved on though! He's feeling regretful because he's single again, you need to decide how you really feel before you marry someone else ?! Best of luck 😊

@Licksuckspank: i can't ever have him back even if i wanted to. he left me after my mom died. that's why i was waiting - i figured there was no effin way he could have thought that was a good idea. but he went with it!

Hhhmmm, well then. You should not entertain his failing love life and put your time and attention to the person you are about to marry. Enjoy and good luck :-)