has anyone ever married someone that everyone else thought was weird?

before we dated, people called my current bf creepy or weird. even i did to someone else i was dating at the time. now that i know him and date him i don't find him that way. but i sometimes get hit with "i thought you thought he was creepy?" i wish i could live it down. what do i do?

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SoFine · 46-50, F

1. How he treats you is more important.
2. Is he kind?
3. Do you learn things about life, you did not know through him?
4. Does he smile allot and does he make you smile?

Remember your friends see life different to you, they can be jealous or do care for your happy. They may see him as taking you away from them.

Remember in Long Term relationships, that our insecurities about life do rise up, this man can help you to see them in a different light and help them slip away into the past where they belong.

NiftyWhite · 46-50, F

nice answer.