Is flirting cheating?

SW-User · 2017-02-22T09:50:47-05:00

Dating & Relationships - Is flirting cheating? (30 replies).

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GwydionFrost · 56-60, M

I have a very flirty personality-- but the true factor of cheating is "ARE YOU ACTUALLY TAKING ACTION/TRYING TO SEDUCE"...?

Because me calling you "cute" or telling you that you are "sexy" and me trying to get into your pants...?

Absolutely totally different animals.

SW-User

I would say flirting was winking at someone or teasing them a little...not trying to sleep with them, that's trying to cheat so..

GwydionFrost · 56-60, M

@Kuronekko: Exactly. Oh, and if winking is ALL it took to get your pants off...?

...not saying much about YOU (the royal generic "you", not YOU specifically, Kuronekko!)

SW-User

@GwydionFrost: then I guess you wouldn't be in a relationship with that person lol

GwydionFrost · 56-60, M

@Kuronekko: I'm thinking that person's idea of long term relationship is measured in DAYS, or maybe (possibly) MONTHS.

sspec

@GwydionFrost: Even years together cannot measure that relationship in many cases.

GwydionFrost · 56-60, M

@Silentspectator: OH! A FWB relationship...? One of those..? That's a WHOLE different animal...! LOL

sspec

@GwydionFrost: Even I think of them to be altogether different kind of species.
Interesting usage of capslocks in almost all of your responses.

GwydionFrost · 56-60, M

@Silentspectator: Thanks-- I try to use them to bring a sense of emphasis and give my responses a feeling of tone that is a bit more difficult to misunderstand. ;)

sspec

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GwydionFrost · 56-60, M

@Silentspectator: Gosh, thanks! It STILL baffles me as to how such a thing could come to pass-- unless it was a case of "Dad never got training by his dad to be a dad." (But I didn't get any... so, I dunno!)

sspec

@GwydionFrost: Well, such novice (untrained) dads are all around, if you care to see! Need is to help them out. Taunts do no good at their stage.