attraction - polarization.

To attract funny and confident people, you have to be funny and confident. If you're mentally depressed and unstable then you're gonna meet similar people.

Sorry but this is how the world works. The law of polarization. Like attracts the like.

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belly4babygirl · 26-30, F

Have you recently read the book The Secret or something??? 🙄

thescalpmaster4 · 26-30, M

no. These are my observations.

Back when I was depressed and a loser, I used to mostly attract women with a lot of problems.

Took me a while to figure out how the world works.

belly4babygirl · 26-30, F

@thescalpmaster4: Just think positive. You'll find someone who appreciates you for you. Someone who treats you right. It might be the effects of polarization, but if you simply do the things that make you happy, you'll realize it's easier to enjoy time with people and get to know them.