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Justbychance · M
You could start by not trying too hard to do something that you openly declare to be something that has no real meaning or reason in the first place. Have you heard the expression 'Needs will where needs must'? Basically, it means that when the need is great, then you begin to find a way simply because of the NEED to do so.
Seems you are very much trapped in a dark, pessimistic place. So ... What do you do next?
Seems you are very much trapped in a dark, pessimistic place. So ... What do you do next?
Thelovelylover · 26-30, M
idk dont have friends to go out with either
Justbychance · M
@Thelovelylover: Truth is, the ball's in your court. You might not think it is ... but, it is. Friendships are hard to forge, for some people and that's simply because that's how it is. Be confident in yourself, relax and don't force anything. You might consider that some people are popular for all the wrong reasons; better you stay clear of those sorts anyway. Don't be hard on yourself; things will fall into place, you will become more confident ... things WILL change.