Would you tell a partner you loved them as soon as you felt it?

Even if you thought it was too early to say?

I've been talking to this guy since Christmas have been dating every since and we both say we love eachother so hey if you want to say it say it but if he seems like he's not ready for that 😬 I'd hold back @Adelh91:

@BlackAphrodite: we've been since like the 20th Dec. I feel like it's still way too early to say, but I do have feelings for him

@Adelh91: if you have feelings for him tell him all about it once you do that he'll probably say I love you first if he doesn't then just go for it and if he doesn't say it back he's either not ready for that or he doesn't feel that type of way about you right at this moment or not at all

@BlackAphrodite: I guess you're right. I have a feeling he feels the same but he has trust issues so it might be too much for me to say right now. I'll leave it a couple of months

@Adelh91: okay but if he has trust issues then just tell him how you feel all the time I tell my boyfriend that because he also has trust issues and insecurities I have to compliment him and tell him stuff so he feels loved and confident

@BlackAphrodite: I compliment him a lot and tell him I love spending time with him, but I just haven't said "I love you" yet

@Adelh91: 🤔 Does he say he likes spending time with you 🤔 And does he also compliment you ?

@BlackAphrodite: yeah he does, but I feel like he's holding back sometimes

😬 I feel that with mines it's really weird like when we text it seems like he doesn't wan to text me or I'm boring him so I ask him are you okay ? He says he's fine then he ask am I okay 🤦🏾‍♀️ then he thinks I'm holding back on something I tell him all the damn time if he can tell me anything @Adelh91:

we always get into these little arguments and or disagreements it's weird

@Adelh91:

@BlackAphrodite: omg we are just like that tbh! It's frustrating at times but he says sometimes he needs space

this is what it's like all the time, I always think I've annoyed him though he says I don't

@Adelh91: 😬🙊 he sounds like him

@BlackAphrodite: I get mad at him sometimes, then he gets mad at me for being mad at him and it goes round in a circle till we both feel really bad and say sorry and make it up to each other. Drives me crazy!

@Adelh91: 😲 Just like us the same shit we argue about comes up and we go through the same shit over and over

@BlackAphrodite: yeah same, it's like "why are we dragging this up again" but we can't help it. I feel like I can't give up on us either because I care about him way too much and it'd kill me to leave. We split up once after an argument, but it lasted like a day, we said we didn't want to be out of each others lives

@Adelh91: 😕 It's really weird we're going though the same stuff but we never stop talking to eachother we text everyday every night

@BlackAphrodite: we talk every day but he'll read texts and not reply for hours and that really pisses me off and he knows it. The fact that he knows it pisses me off and he still does it just makes me angrier and angrier the longer it takes for him to reply, especially when it's a question and I know he's not busy/ I keep seeing him being online.
I just need to chill out a bit

@Adelh91: 😡 Yeah that would piss me off too my boyfriend does that but I know what he's doing like showering or finishing up work the onl time he actually did that was when he got seriously hammered after work I was concerned not mad though

@BlackAphrodite: I know he's just like that and I trust him 100%, but it still makes me feel like he doesn't care sometimes

@Adelh91: 🤔 Maybe you should tell him how you feel I have to admit I lie and hold some things back from him in fear of him breaking up with me

@BlackAphrodite: well it has to be better than walking on eggshells I guess

@Adelh91: I guess if you tell him how you feel I'm pretty sure if he's understanding he'll listen and tell you how he also feels