turmoil · F
Just wait it out
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Are you married?
Pray you may be able to get these answers from your own evolved self.
Your realization to bring a change is one step towards saving your marriage followed by so many attached lives.
Bests.
Your realization to bring a change is one step towards saving your marriage followed by so many attached lives.
Bests.
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Attached lives?
@Aaronweber84: Your better half and kids, if any and perhaps the extended families of both.
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It's really awful, honestly, I don't know how to face this all head on. my marriage isn't over yet. I want it to work out but not if I can't change the person who I am. because if I can't change and be a better man for myself how will I ever be a better man for my wife or for someone else if ever my marriage ended.
Carina · 51-55, F
I'm sorry for what you're going through.... were you able to answer?
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@Carina: thanks.... Honestly my moods are so unstable from everything... I don't even know who I am anymore
Carina · 51-55, F
Feeling lost... that's tough.. keep talking to people you trust.. don't shut yourself down... with time you will slowly find yourself.... you will gain strength and love again
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If I could truly be helped to overcome the overbearing controlling person whom I've become, if I could be helped to let go of all the past hurt and hatred I have for certain people, if I could be helped to forgive my self and forgive others, if I could be helped to change fully to who I really am, underneath all the scars I would want to stay in my marriage, and if I decided to leave the marriage id at least be able to be a better man for someone else, including myself....