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turmoil · F
Just wait it out
SW-User
Are you married?
SW-User
It's really awful, honestly, I don't know how to face this all head on. my marriage isn't over yet. I want it to work out but not if I can't change the person who I am. because if I can't change and be a better man for myself how will I ever be a better man for my wife or for someone else if ever my marriage ended.
Pray you may be able to get these answers from your own evolved self.
Your realization to bring a change is one step towards saving your marriage followed by so many attached lives.
Bests.
Your realization to bring a change is one step towards saving your marriage followed by so many attached lives.
Bests.
SW-User
Attached lives?
@Aaronweber84: Your better half and kids, if any and perhaps the extended families of both.
Carina · 46-50, F
I'm sorry for what you're going through.... were you able to answer?
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@Carina: thanks.... Honestly my moods are so unstable from everything... I don't even know who I am anymore
Carina · 46-50, F
Feeling lost... that's tough.. keep talking to people you trust.. don't shut yourself down... with time you will slowly find yourself.... you will gain strength and love again
SW-User
If I could truly be helped to overcome the overbearing controlling person whom I've become, if I could be helped to let go of all the past hurt and hatred I have for certain people, if I could be helped to forgive my self and forgive others, if I could be helped to change fully to who I really am, underneath all the scars I would want to stay in my marriage, and if I decided to leave the marriage id at least be able to be a better man for someone else, including myself....