I feel annoying to my boyfriend, what should I do?

So, we've been dating for almost 8 months now. I've found out i'm super clingy- and I hate it. My boyfriend finds it cute whenever I'm with him, but he finds it annoying when I try to message him a lot when he's "busy". This has been making me feel awful lately...
Sometimes I feel like he's not really so much "busy", and more just annoyed with me.
I really don't want to be so attached, but I feel so dependent on him.I don't want to be like this, but I feel so hopeless. I would really appreciate some advice right now.

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Tinkerhell · 41-45, F

Find something that not only interests you, but doesn't include your boyfriend.

bearinthebigbluehouse · 26-30, M

My girlfriend is kinda the same..... I just tell her I need some space... Too much time together is usually a bad thing... Take a few days off of the relationship or something.. ┬┴┬┴┤•ᴥ•ʔ

KIllerKitty · 22-25, F

I know too much time together is bad. It's just that my family situation isn't too great and so I end up spending a lot of time with him.

bearinthebigbluehouse · 26-30, M

Weeeeeeeell if you keep pushing............ You know what will happen eventually... Alas, I am unsure of other possibilities... ʅʕ•ᴥ•ʔʃ

KIllerKitty · 22-25, F

Thank you!

Cooper802Forever · 26-30, M

Text him only once a day/week or when it's convenient when you know he is not busy (one conversation limit unless he texts you after one then I guess it's ok) that and maybe try occupying yourself more with tasks/hobbies to get your mind off texting him so much....

SW-User

Don't get too serious, or maybe opt for some hobbies or activity to make your self busy

Dolimyte · 41-45, M

Stop texting him so much

KIllerKitty · 22-25, F

It's really hard for me. I tried that today, and it didn't seem to help as I ended up just staring at the app waiting for him to pay attention to me 😭

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