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Question for adult men late 40s+

Poll - Total Votes: 7
I would speak to my girlfriend till she begins to treat her daughter well.
There is nothing to say because I will lose the royal treatment.
Not my place to say however involved I am.
My girlfriend is wrong and I would consider leaving.
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I know the majority of you are not street or jungle dogs [meaning you care only for yourself and treat others like nothing and wish no good or success for them].

You met a woman at a party and she slept at your home that night. She insist that you come to her home and that is when a relationship beginnings. Except you didn't decide to go that far but she took you that far. You find out she has a teenage daughter who's constantly in fights with her. The teenage daughter's teenage life is suppressed by your new girlfriend and the child is not able to socialize, just school and home no smartphone no computer. You begin to see tension between the child and your girlfriend getting worse now that you are in the picture but you realize its your girlfriend causing the issues and that she is destroying her relationship with her child to have a better relationship with you. She also ruined her relationship with her parents and sisters because they hate you, they hate how you treat your girlfriend. Without respect and you are constantly arguing and fighting with her. Treating her without love. The child rebels against what I am about to describe as the royal treatment and would like you to answer the question based on that, specially now you have a background story.

Your girlfriend gives you the royal treatment which includes. Well prepared timely cooked food the minute you step in the home. Food, water and juice is served to you, no getting up just sit. You can relax on a couch and watch television all you want. Everything is about you. Breakfast at 5am because work is at 6am. Lunch is prepared for you that morning. Your clothes ironed for work and going out on weekends. She stays home after work and goes no where on weekends and would only go out if you invite her, but you never do which gives you the opportunity to meet other women which you take. She gives you everything you want and buys you clothing every week and pays for the shopping whenever you go out with her and the child does not receive that treatment. You watch her destroy her relationship with her daughter for you.

How would you handle a life like this? Please choose a poll and explain.

The man in this case, stays and says nothing to his girlfriend, he allows her to corrupt her life.

And to anyone who chose the first poll, why stay with her if you don't love her? He doesnt love her.
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No offense, but this is fucked up. For someone to throw their own kid under the bus for a guy is bullshit.
luckranger71 · 51-55, M
Absolutely. I would be completely turned off the moment I started sniffing something like this.
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It gets worse.

For a family member to spend three weeks at the home and cry not only because the mother went after the child with a knife, but cried over the conditions she never knew her niece lives under.
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@luckranger71: Amen to that. I'd rather die honestly. Lol. Little dramatic, but true. Lol
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@luckranger71: its good to hear there are good men out there. This one does nothing.
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@LeahLovee: So did that relative report this? Or, what happened?
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@SarcasmQueen: nothing was reported but the entire family both on the biological dad's and mother knows. I was given advice which helped but the conditions grew worse
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@LeahLovee: jeez. That's too bad. Hope everything works out. :(
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@SarcasmQueen: its going to work out, she'll need me one day and she will need family, the people she neglect won't be around when she needs them, she will have to turn to him.

Can you imagine she was sick and had to be hospitalized. She kept calling and calling him he wouldn't answer and they're on the phone all day, the one time she needed him he wasn't there, he never called back. So, she called me and I was prepared to leave school to meet up with her.
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@LeahLovee: oh dear. Take care
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@SarcasmQueen: thank you.