Is he just using her??

My cousin has this family friend that’s her age and they’ve known each other for years but never really talked. Anyway, he added her on social media and started to talk to her. He started flirting and said all these years he’s liked her but was scared to say anything. Long story short, he has a gf but she’s abusive (hits him, verbal abuse, nags that he can’t do anything good) so he’s tired of it. He wants to start dating my cousin but doesn’t know how to leave his girl.
Recently, since yesterday morning he left my cousin on read and watches her stories but doesn’t talk to her. Was he just using her?

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SomeMichGuy · M

It's just online until it becomes real.

It's crazy how obsessed ppl get about this stuff ("Recently, since yesterday morning he left my cousin on read")...how old are these people?

I see now that your cousin is 25; how old is the guy supposed to be?

luvonablock · F

@SomeMichGuy He’s 24 I think. They’re pretty close in age

SomeMichGuy · M

@luvonablock I think they are both tentative ppl.

They should meet.

sheesh lol

luvonablock · F

@SomeMichGuy That’s what I’m saying lol. He still hasn’t talked to her but she’s at the point where she’s like whatever

SomeMichGuy · M

@luvonablock They might be on the brink of something really fabulous. They need to at least meet.