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Got used by a D1 athlete. Should I tell the Dean or let it go ?

So I met D1 athlete online. I guess originally he thought I was cute and I thought he was cute. I showed him lots of support on his TikTok. Then one day he was struggling with school work. So I offered to help him. Then my help turned into him conviencing me to just do the work for him. He would not do any of his homework. I asked him if he wanted to do more of a study session type of thing and he told me he was busy with practice and football that he couldn’t do the work for his self. I some how ended up just doing it all. Then one day he had a game in my city and I thought he would want to meet me but that was the day he acted very stuck up and not interested in me at all. The woman who helped him catch up on school. I got so mad I threatned to tell on him for passing my work as his own. Still no response and he blocked me everywhere. All because I expressed to him that I was supportive person and helped him and now he wants to treat me like I’m just a fan. From another account I heard him bragging about not letting no other girl help him with school work and he said I’m talking to myself in his messages. I did tell him that this was a vulnerable time for me and my dad had recently passed away and I had a friendship breakup from someone who wasn’t really my friend so I was just happy to have a friend who I thought I could look up to or that would invite me to fun things or get me out my shell. Plus he was a really hott guy. He did pay me for helping him but that was not regular help that was me flat out doing the work.
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SouthernGuy1987 · 36-40, M
Wow that's crazy that he used like that. Sorry that happened to you. I've been used many times for lots of different things because I'm way too nice and people take advantage of my kindness

I've learned my lesson and no longer let people use me at all because they're not good people and will never pay me back in any way. You have to take care of yourself first and reject people who use you 💯
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SouthernGuy1987 · 36-40, M
@Lexithegreat Wow he's something else and a terrible person to do all that. It's a hard lesson to learn but now you know better to not let people use you at all

I'd like to talk with you more in dm if you'd like 😊
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I some how ended up just doing it all.

That was your choice. Consider it a lesson learned and move on.
YoMomma ·
You're the older person here and should be more responsible, you're the one who chose to do his work because you had the hots for him .. take responsibility for your actions and move on.. you yourself were using him for attention and fun.. he’s just protecting himself from you.. but he should have been doing his own work.. maybe you are being a vindictive sore loser eh? Because he wasn't cozy with you? This isn't right ..
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Pretzel · 70-79, M
you got used. chalk it up in the loss column and move on.

stop stalking his social media and go fin da person that likes you for you and sees how great you are.
Lexithegreat · 31-35, F
@Pretzel what if I don’t wanna be the bigger person and I actually want to ruin his life. Because I’m tired of people who use people and benefit off the pain and heartbreak of others always winning ??
Pretzel · 70-79, M
@Lexithegreat I know the desire is great - and the NEED to do it is greater.

you fantasize about seeing him crushed and on his knees to beg for your forgiveness.

won't happen

maybe you will get him suspended - if he's really good they will call you a liar and a crazy person...

I am reminded of the saying by Confucious:

"Before you embark on a journey of revenge, dig two graves,"

It takes so much energy to hate or to get revenge - and when you have it ...it won't be satisfying.

It's your choice - I wish you peace in your heart Lexi.
Midlifemale · 61-69, M
Yes..report him for sure...he used you...that wasn't nice
Lexithegreat · 31-35, F
@Midlifemale exactly thank you
lissah · 36-40, F
oogirl · 13-15, F
It sounds to me like you should tell
helenoftroy2000 · 22-25, F
tell the dean? are you in the 70s? whjy would he care about one person's accusations? do you have any evidence...call the police
Lexithegreat · 31-35, F
@helenoftroy2000 I guess I feel taken advantage of for being smart, and I feel used and to make it worse the first assignment I wasn’t paid for and when I got mad and ask him to pay me he just reacted with a haha. I didn’t know you could go to the police for stuff like this.
Lexithegreat · 31-35, F
@helenoftroy2000 Sorry although I’m very book smart, I never made it to college. Most of what I know about college was just through tv. So idk who I’m suppose to contact.
@helenoftroy2000 That would accomplish nothing.
May the Black Hand give him to Sithis...
Lexithegreat · 31-35, F
@Amyrakunejo @Amyrakunejo I don’t know what that means but yes. Lol
@Lexithegreat
https://en.uesp.net/wiki/Lore:Black_Hand
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