Continuing to talk to this girl who I very strongly believe has BPD who has been messing me about, no intention to meet, but to observe

the manipulation techniques. Had strung me along for a while before I clocked onto the text book games.

Even though I'm a certified mental health and neurodevelopmental disorder practitioner, it's interesting to see how these people manipulate. Especially when they know there will be social consequences, we go to the same church and she hasn't used an app where she can delete all the things she's said to me.

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Holden · 31-35, M

I met a girl last month at a convention and we hit it off and found we have so much in common. But I learned eventually she has mental health issues and she isn't consistent with planning to do things together even if she says she wants to do something together. She only lives a town away from me and she said she is never that busy, so Idk why she wanna even waste my time.