Be honest with me, is this unrealistic?
Meeting someone who is largely only interested in you? Is it now a case of there being 5 other people they have their eye on? 🙄 I have a theory about this..
36-40, F
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RogueLodyte · M
This is one of the biggest reasons I am not in a relationship. This is what I am. I am totally 100% loyal, committed, and interested in only ONE woman.
So what's the problem you may ask? The PROBLEM is that I expect the same from my lady. When SHE expects, wants, and receives 100% loyalty, it's because she "loves" me.
But if I expect the same as what I offer and give, it's because I am possessive, insecure, a narcissist, and a control freak. So I choose to do without the BS and not put up with the arguing, the hypocrisy, and the double standards. We live in an extremely self centered society. A relationship which you describe takes TWO, and two unselfish people getting together these days is rare...or yes, unrealistic.
And a sure fire eventual death to most relationships is "girls night out" or "guys night out". Nothing good can come of it.
So what's the problem you may ask? The PROBLEM is that I expect the same from my lady. When SHE expects, wants, and receives 100% loyalty, it's because she "loves" me.
But if I expect the same as what I offer and give, it's because I am possessive, insecure, a narcissist, and a control freak. So I choose to do without the BS and not put up with the arguing, the hypocrisy, and the double standards. We live in an extremely self centered society. A relationship which you describe takes TWO, and two unselfish people getting together these days is rare...or yes, unrealistic.
And a sure fire eventual death to most relationships is "girls night out" or "guys night out". Nothing good can come of it.