Cringe inappropriate behavior from women/men and friends around my attractive 13 year old son

So I have a son and I’m starting to realise how creepy people are to boys too. Growing up being the only girl my mom always talked about me being safe and to watch out for creeps and made it seem like it only happened to women. My son is turning into a very tall and handsome young man. I’m noticing women twice his age and even some older than me acting very strange around him. He is still very innocent and nerdy and very close to me he is not yet interested in girls in that way. Yet they are throwing they self at him. I have a 60 year old blk woman as a roommate who does have mild disabilities but I had to tell her not to wear inappropriate clothing around my son. When he is around she wants to come out in mini skirts and bras and shorts. I know she has mental illness but she has a daughter my age and grandchildren younger than my son she should know better then she acts like a little girl around my son. Then there’s teenage girls older than my son who walk back and fourth in front of our camera and watch him and wait for him. Everytime me and my son go to run errands or go pick up food these girls come outside waiting for a chance to see him. Then grown women older than me but still hott in the pants come up to me to tell me how cuteee my son is… but it feels weird the way they say it. I see him as so innocent right now and I don’t want him to lose that to some weird creepy old lady or predators. Then I’m noticing how many creeps are desperate old women too. Smh. I’m so scared for him because he is so handsome he gets weird stares from
Men, women and teens. I even asked his dad to start getting him looser fitting jeans like more from the 90s because his dad was getting him skinny jeans and I noticed a perv on more than one occasion gawking at my son. It creeped me out so bad. Please don’t judge this is new for me, and I’m
a very hyper aware person

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Muthafukajones · 46-50, M

My mum noticed women twice my age checking me out when I turned about 14. It’s all good. Educate him about disease and let nature take its course. Older women are a wonderful initiation into sex. Make sure they don’t make him sick and he understands about being responsible so there are no unwanted pregnancies. That’s all you can do. The rest is part of becoming a young man of the world.

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Lexithegreat · 31-35, F

@Muthafukajones he also came to me and told me and his dad that their behavior makes him feel uncomfortable.

Muthafukajones · 46-50, M

@Lexithegreat You make a good point but his sexual awakening is coming sooner than you think. Definitely wouldn’t be healthy if it was with a much much older woman. I also didn’t realize he was only 13. Still I see nothing wrong with a senior say at his school taking an interest in him. It’s going to happen. It’s natural.

Lexithegreat · 31-35, F

@Muthafukajones yes he just turned 13 earlier this year. And I’m discusted with how these grown women who are old enough to be his grandma are acting with him and ppl older than him. To me he looks like a child who is growing into his looks. It’s weird that grown ass women older women are looking at him in that way and women old enough to be his older sister or something too. I had to have a talk with him but I think it’s too soon for the talk talk just yet I would have to tell his dad but I had the predator talk with him because I’m noticing so many older individuals looking at him in a perverted way. To the point where I had to call his dad and ask him to get looser fitting jeans for his size. I told him in a very loving way about predator and he also shared with me that some of the way ppl act around him right now makes him uncomfortable. So I knew I wasn’t just making these things up.

Muthafukajones · 46-50, M

@Lexithegreat I had a strange experience at work when I was 20. There was a woman in her 40s who took a liking to me. I didn’t mind at first. She did favours for me and brought me food sometimes. Then I realized what she wanted. Thinking back she was probably attractive enough but the idea of being with someone that much older than me made me feel sick. I told her I wasn’t interested when she began touching me sometimes. She became hostile and tried to make trouble for me at that job. I knew enough about my rights to speak to management about her. It ended abruptly after that.