Well said. He already cheated on you, it's prone to happen again.

up to her😑

That's exactly my point. It depends what some of the factors were. Cheating doesn't mean that things have to end.

@Hatt94: I never would have done it sober, so yes, it does matter.

6 months!

@Lillian: honestly babe, it's your decision. When I cheated, it was just me being drunk and stupid. It had nothing to do with my partner. We both cried when I told him & we worked through it. It was really really difficult, but we did it. We're not together now for other reasons, but if you do forgive him, you have to completely forgive him and make the decision to move passed it. You can't throw it in his face or constantly punish him by bringing it up. If you feel like he was sincere in his apology & if you feel like you want to salvage your relationship, then by all means, do so.