No hope
nazgul · 26-30, F
Unfortunately, it sounds like she's just not interested in starting anything with you. That's ok, you don't even know each other well enough at this point for it to really be anything personal. There'll be other girls. It's good that you took a chance and put yourself out there.
She did tell you how she felt about relationships and explained she was very busy. I don't think she's messing with you, I think she's probably overwhelmed with what she has going on. But she's not making you a priority and that's something you shouldn't stick around for. There's no telling if and when she'll be interested in more with you. It's okay to move on, lots of women out there who would appreciate you.
PoetryNEmotion · F
She just isn't into you. Please move on. Different priorities. You sre young. Date. Ho dlowly. Twenties is about exploring the world. Learning who you are. Dating is extra. Enjoy your journey. Your path.
eMortal · M
2 strategies, choose one based on your personality.
- use the numbers game. Meaning, ask out, if it doesn't work for week, move on. Ask another.
- up your game to a point where you don't even need to chase them. You show up, clean, well dressed, confident somewhere like in a cafe, minding your business, yet being open to women who are trying to get your attention. The key here is to have that vibe of "I like you too but I don't care if you walk away" 🙂
- use the numbers game. Meaning, ask out, if it doesn't work for week, move on. Ask another.
- up your game to a point where you don't even need to chase them. You show up, clean, well dressed, confident somewhere like in a cafe, minding your business, yet being open to women who are trying to get your attention. The key here is to have that vibe of "I like you too but I don't care if you walk away" 🙂
carpediem · 61-69, M
Don't call when you said you would. She's playing you. More than likely, you have no chance. That being said....text her about a week past the date you said you'd call. Don't chase her. Just ask her out one last time. Pick the day and time. If she can't make it, then you retort "if you have an interest, you know my number" and let it go.
Nanori · F
She isn't interested in a relationship, and it isn't about you
The more you chase her the more distant she'll get. Let her go
The more you chase her the more distant she'll get. Let her go
Adstar · 56-60, M
No i do not think there is hope.. If a woman really likes you she will make all the time in the world for you.. excessivly chacing a girl ends up looking like desperation and to woman it looks like weakness or simpish behavour.. Move on man and keep up with the gym work and bettering yourself..
DailyFlash · 56-60, M
You tried! Go for the next girl you like. This one going cold is just letting you try for next girl who you might click with. From what you've described, she's not into it.
I suggest that you have some self respect for yourself and move on, you've been chasing her thus far. Therefore the ball is in her court now - don't waste anymore of your time and energy.
caccoon · 36-40
Yes, let it go. Rejection is really hard and hurtful but you gotta move on from it and refocus your mind into other things if you think about her
Good luck 💙
Good luck 💙
4meAndyou · F
If you meet someone again, in the future, (cause this girl doesn't want you), play a little hard to get. Women aren't really interested in men who act needy.
looking4thesun · M
Sorry, this relationship was over before it started
Blondily · F
She's not interested. So get out and meet new people and have fun. Forget about her because she's already forgotten about you.
REMsleep · 41-45, F
Do not call this girl again. If you were my son I would smack you.
Man where is your father or any older male figure to lead you in this stuff? Do you have any?
You must have some self respect. You aren't respecting your time or what you have to offer.
Don't beg for attention.
You will set yourself up to be used and users can see this desperation and even if she was mildly interested then it's a humongous turn off to have some guy keep begging after you nicely told him no.
Do not. I repeat do not call her again.
Move on.
Man where is your father or any older male figure to lead you in this stuff? Do you have any?
You must have some self respect. You aren't respecting your time or what you have to offer.
Don't beg for attention.
You will set yourself up to be used and users can see this desperation and even if she was mildly interested then it's a humongous turn off to have some guy keep begging after you nicely told him no.
Do not. I repeat do not call her again.
Move on.
Quimliqer · 70-79, M
There’s always hope!!
If you quasi-GHOSTED her, .... she'll definitely lose interest the moment she sees that you have "unfriended" her
Northwest · M
Move on.

SW-User
Get your feet wet. Get invited to parties and make it with a tipsy chick.
Nunki · 31-35, F
Try again next month
solitaire · 41-45, F
She does not seem interested. If she was, she would have sounded more welcoming
Bumbles · 51-55, M
Forget her, dude. No chance.
JamesBugman · 56-60, T
It is most likely a guy foo.