I feel really awful about cheating on an old girlf. I used to really hate her for what she did afterwards but I can see that it was probably my fault.

I had been dating Emily for six months when I kissed another girl, Sophia, at a party. The spark with Emily had faded, and when I saw Sophia, an old friend, the chemistry between us was undeniable. In a moment of weakness, I kissed her and we started seeing each other behind Emily’s back. We only went as far as kissing, but I would be very upset if someone did that to me. I have talked about this before on here but I was very young and didn’t really think I’d acted badly.

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Husher

It's a culture

Strongtea · 22-25, M

I do know that many people do it all the time. I don’t act like that anymore and I feel really bad about it now. 🥺@Husher

Husher

@Strongtea I'd have to go out of my way to do that, I accept that you have learned differently
poor emily :/

Strongtea · 22-25, M

I feel really bad for her, but she has found somebody else and is really happy but I know she was very upset at the time. @Husher

Husher

@Strongtea do you think she has forgiven you?

Strongtea · 22-25, M

To be honest I don’t think she has, but one of her friends said that she was glad it happened as her life turned out much better without me. 🥺@Husher

Husher

@Strongtea that's not uncommon really, just sounds pessimistic

Strongtea · 22-25, M

Yes I suppose you’re right. @Husher

Husher

@Strongtea can I ask you what she did?

Strongtea · 22-25, M

She tipped food over me and Sophia when she saw us at a restaurant. It was horrible.@Husher

Husher

@Strongtea no one should have to go through that

Strongtea · 22-25, M

Thanks, I did really hate her for it, but I can see her side now. But still. @Husher

Husher

@Strongtea still.

Strongtea · 22-25, M

I know, it was such a horrid thing to go through, our outfits were ruined and it was such a scene, everyone was staring. We live in a small town so it was extra horrible. @Husher

Punches · 46-50, F

@Strongtea

She tipped food over me and Sophia when she saw us at a restaurant. It was horrible.

I know this isn't that important but what kind of food was it? Hopefully not something good.

Husher

@Punches i had the same question like was it soup? Not acceptable anyway

Punches · 46-50, F

@Husher Well I mean soup would be the messiest but not the biggest waste.

I just would not want to think someone would waste a good pizza or hamburger meal like that.
Especially if it were a good Chinese or Mexican meal.
Wasting General Tso's chicken is actually a crime.

But who knows what it was.

Husher

@Punches i hope it was a hamburger

Punches · 46-50, F

@Husher He is feeling bad about a cheating incident and yet we are discussing what kind of food it was. 🤣

Husher

@Punches i wouldn't do that to harm him tho