No contact & ghosting - don't do it

Find it hard to get my head around ghosting. I imagine it comes from the awkwardness of dumping people. Maybe we give a feeble excuse; I'm ill, I'm moving away, I'm struggling, its not you its me, whatever the reason do we owe an explanation?

Maybe we don't. If they are a manipulator, toxic, narcissist, a habitual liar, a gaslighter, a troll, a catfish, a fake, a cheater, a danger, a POS, a person who damages us or themself and we can't detach. We owe an excuse to a decent human being; we don't owe much to someone like this. If you see any of yourself in these points, change grow and see the change in your love life & if you still get ghosted - you will get more sympathy and compassion when this happens. Don't gaslight others either, you owe people something - even if it feels hard - think the next time you ghost; "have I ghosted myself?" learn, grow & thrive ❤