A question for the men here

Upon meeting and possibly liking a new woman in your life, would you be put off if she had children?

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SW-User

What about women accepting a mans' child, is she just supposed to do that, lets be honest, this question is so sexist as it's mainly the mother left with the child.. and not the other way around..

81redhead · 41-45, M

It has been proven that most courts side with the mother when it comes to custody (in some states she has to murder a few people to lose the rights).

So the whole system is sexist.

SW-User

@81redhead: exactly

MissTerious · 46-50, F

I was purely asking from a personal point of view. It has raised some interesting points however.
For me, if I was to meet and fall in love with a man who already has children, then I would have a form of love for them too. They are a part of him too.

SW-User

@MissTerious: I understand, but I feel in general, a woman who has kids and then her relationship fails, well she worries about her future RELATIONSHIPS because she has kids, however, I do not feel that any man/many men.. thinks this way or gives 1 shit about it..
So this is why I feel the whole thing is sexist..

Footballstar · 26-30, M

My uncle had kids with a woman then she ran off with another man and left him with the kids. Everyone ran for the hill after they found out about the kids for years.