How do I move on from my ex

Long story short, I said something extremely insensitive in the presence of my girlfriend (who is now my ex) and decided to question me about it while I was at work of all places, which led to...quite a few unsatisfactory responses. It's been over 2 weeks now that she's ghosted me, and a little over a week since she's blocked me from everything. I am so depressed without her and it kills me that she's allowing this to destroy our year and a half relationship.... She told me she wanted to be there for me after hearing about the news concerning my father and now I just feel so betrayed and heartbroken.... today was the day my Mom died 7 years ago and I haven't got a single message or anything from her...

What do I do? How can I move on? I love her so much but there's no way we can reconnect again since I'm blocked on everything.... I miss her so much and want her & only her, but.... it's over.... can somebody please help give me advice on how to move on from this?

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riseofthemachine · 41-45, M

My friend I can't give you the proper answer cause it's a tricky question you asked .
The way I'm looking at it and it does happen and I'm sorry for saying this if your depressed but can't move on that easy the way I'm looking at it cause your ex girlfriend right and your mom passing away I can see that you were looking for a mother's love .
Did you grieve your mother properly and the answer is problem no cause you can never get over a grief like that cause your mother was special too you .
That's what happens when you go into a relationship ( and you said it ) craving your ex and now your distraught.
Some people get over grief different than others and losses .
My ex broke up with me and 3 months later my best friend passed away , she was 38 and I went off the rails . I ended up in a pysche ward 3 times in one year and that's how I dealt with grief . I was suicide for a year and half after it and now after being away from it for so long I can see the bright side of it (at times) .
I was nearly your age when that happened me but my only advise too you ( as painful as it is).
Don't go back straight into another relationship cause you need time to recover