How do I move on from my ex

Long story short, I said something extremely insensitive in the presence of my girlfriend (who is now my ex) and decided to question me about it while I was at work of all places, which led to...quite a few unsatisfactory responses. It's been over 2 weeks now that she's ghosted me, and a little over a week since she's blocked me from everything. I am so depressed without her and it kills me that she's allowing this to destroy our year and a half relationship.... She told me she wanted to be there for me after hearing about the news concerning my father and now I just feel so betrayed and heartbroken.... today was the day my Mom died 7 years ago and I haven't got a single message or anything from her...

What do I do? How can I move on? I love her so much but there's no way we can reconnect again since I'm blocked on everything.... I miss her so much and want her & only her, but.... it's over.... can somebody please help give me advice on how to move on from this?

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xSiFiGamer2016x · 22-25, M

If you keep worrying about your ex, you'll end up physically and mentally ill. There's an "ex" for a reason. Ghosting is one thing, and blocking is just signaling you that it's truly over for that relationship. Time to move on. Focus on yourself in life, don't give her the time of day.

I know how you feel, though. Took me a while to move on from my past relationships. It's gonna hurt for many, but there are other fishes in the sea.

And here's the thing. If she ever decides to unblock you and talk to you, then don't even bother replying back. She did show you that she was a good listener, so don't listen to her IF she ever decides to talk to you again. Dating is very problematic now, based from what I've heard, seen, and in my experiences. You can either find a new girlfriend who truly understands you, or stay single and live a good life. The choice is yours, but I'd prefer single to have a sense of self respect.

As for you saying something "insensitive", what do you really mean by that? Anything can be insensitive, but what?