How do I move on from my ex

Long story short, I said something extremely insensitive in the presence of my girlfriend (who is now my ex) and decided to question me about it while I was at work of all places, which led to...quite a few unsatisfactory responses. It's been over 2 weeks now that she's ghosted me, and a little over a week since she's blocked me from everything. I am so depressed without her and it kills me that she's allowing this to destroy our year and a half relationship.... She told me she wanted to be there for me after hearing about the news concerning my father and now I just feel so betrayed and heartbroken.... today was the day my Mom died 7 years ago and I haven't got a single message or anything from her...

What do I do? How can I move on? I love her so much but there's no way we can reconnect again since I'm blocked on everything.... I miss her so much and want her & only her, but.... it's over.... can somebody please help give me advice on how to move on from this?

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GohantheThird · M

Being blocked on everything can be hard, but the best thing you can do is give her space and focus on yourself. It's very common, so don't go immediately to the worse case scenario.
Usually, people get blocked by their ex for one of two reasons:
1) You've overdone it. Chances are you were very needy, very desperate, and very very jealous. You were going through her things, making inappropriate comments, harassing her maybe. At the end of the day, you couldn't handle the breakup so she blocked you. I had to block a girl everywhere because she was super jealous of other women, and it was better to move on.
2) She's having trouble getting over the breakup. What was probably happening was that she was stalking your page non-stop and it was causing her to obsess over you. She probably thought blocking you was the best way to avoid any painful reminders of you.

Now, what can you do? Nothing. The No Contact rule is a period where you go without contacting your ex so you can heal from a painful breakup. Use social media to meet other women and grow without her. Eventually, she might get curious and unblock you. If she does, wait for her to reach out. For now though, focus on yourself. Heal, and grow without her.

TryingtoLava

@GohantheThird thats cell sega SS2 gohan advice dang right on

GohantheThird · M

@TryingtoLava Thanks Lava! I do what I can 😈😈😈