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Should I cut contact or have a final conversation?

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When someone initially shows a lot of interest in you, but then suddenly starts acting cold and distant, it's evident that something has changed between you. Despite attempts to address the issue, they insist that everything is fine. However, it becomes increasingly difficult to ignore the obvious shift. At this point, you may wonder whether to go no contact or have a final conversation with them to express your concerns. If they refuse to communicate, it may be best to end contact, as pretending that everything is fine becomes unsustainable. If you decide to cut contact, does it equate to a breakup?
Will the other person eventually return? If they don't, and you were the one to suggest cutting contact, is it appropriate to reach out again in the future to gauge their interest? If so, how long should you wait before doing so?
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RubySoo · 56-60, F
Ive always been guilty of 'one more conversation' and hanging on for dear life hoping things would go back to how they once were. But..... they never do, even if they seem to for a while. If you try for that conversation, you might well find yourself in a situation where they tell you YOU have changed and maybe even tell you you have become clingy or over attached. If you allow this, it will eat up you self esteem..... as you know the change is with them and their behaviour towards you.
So....my advice.... tell them what they have ment to you, thank them if you wish... or give 'em what for if thats more appropriate.... but walk away on yr terms, dont give them the power.
I've been there more times than i should have and it was a lesson i took too long to learn.
Save yrself any extra hurt.
Good luck. X