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Should I cut contact or have a final conversation?

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When someone initially shows a lot of interest in you, but then suddenly starts acting cold and distant, it's evident that something has changed between you. Despite attempts to address the issue, they insist that everything is fine. However, it becomes increasingly difficult to ignore the obvious shift. At this point, you may wonder whether to go no contact or have a final conversation with them to express your concerns. If they refuse to communicate, it may be best to end contact, as pretending that everything is fine becomes unsustainable. If you decide to cut contact, does it equate to a breakup?
Will the other person eventually return? If they don't, and you were the one to suggest cutting contact, is it appropriate to reach out again in the future to gauge their interest? If so, how long should you wait before doing so?
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NitsandTipples · 41-45, M
It's called bread crumbing, cut contact. She's wanting to see you jump through hoops to pursue her, it validates her when you go above and beyond to talk to her. Ask yourself, is she doing the same for you? I'd rather have four quarters than a hundred pennies, remember the company you keep...
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
@NitsandTipples Nope. That is just what you assume. Please, stop believing that. It might just as well mean she is not interested but doesn't bother to be clear about it because she knows she can just close the chat window and not deal with anything that is going on online at all. If she's bored enough again, she might open the chat again.