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Am I ghosting?

I know I'm not a decent good girl. After I broke up with my ex, there was a cute guy that always slide a dm with me. At first I'm not entertaining him. It feels like he's too good looking for me. However, he keeps on chatting me even though I ignored him multiple times.

Fast forward, we sometimes talk a lot and sometimes we're both busy. We also video call at times. There are times like he's acting like a kid and demanding stuffs (some are dirty). Tbh I'm having a hard to ignore him since he's looks is my exact type.

Anyways, the last time we talk is he said he might not able to communicate since he and his friends will go for a 2-day hike. I told him to take care. Later that night I deactivated my social media, up until now.

P.S. The main reason I deactivated is because I don't feel like talking to anyone as well, not only because of him.
PepsiColaP Best Comment
Staying in that situation will hurt your self esteem and self worth. He showed how casually he can choose to dedicate his time and attention elsewhere and you tried to one up him,maybe even to convince yourself too,by disappearing completely. Be with someone who cares for you,even if it is casual

cercisflowertoo · 51-55, F
It sounds like he'd be a good bedmate. No harm in trying him out. If doesn't work for you, dismiss him :) xox
sugarpie · 26-30, F
@cercisflowertoo I don't want to get hurt again. I know he's just playing
cercisflowertoo · 51-55, F
@sugarpie You should take charge in the bedroom :)
Animalvan · 56-60, M
@cercisflowertoo could always use good bed mates
HumanEarth · 56-60, M
No, you now identify as transparent and your pronouns are now Who and Where.

Ghosting is now a racial term
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sugarpie · 26-30, F
@OldMan70 Yes, I kind of like love addict for one specific person. I have tendencies to be obsessed with someone
bhatjc · 46-50, M
Just be you miss. You can always block that guy.
Isthisit · F
He might miss you and want to talk to you again
cercisflowertoo · 51-55, F
No worries, younger guys can be a bit immature. I hope he gets back in touch with you.
sugarpie · 26-30, F
@cercisflowertoo should I let him?
Adogslife · 61-69, M
In this situation, I’m glad I’m not young.

All of this, both sides, seems so immature.

🫤
sugarpie · 26-30, F
@Adogslife good for you, not related to my question tho
he acts immature, demanding mostly sexual stuff [image]
@deathfairy My thoughts exactly
Guardian · 56-60, M
Zonuss · 41-45, M
If you don't like him then tell him. Simple. ☺️
sugarpie · 26-30, F
@Zonuss I already told him that I find him attractive, yet we want different things in life. He said I'll like him soon too. I know he's trying to set me in a roller-coaster situation
travelguy01 · 41-45, M
What does he want?

What do you want?
sugarpie · 26-30, F
@travelguy01 very different things. He likes to have a partner that's obsessed with him. And I, I want grow.

I know he is already successful with his career. He just want someone he can cling to.

I'm just starting my career. I want to do something good for myself and maybe soon, settle down.

 
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