divorced ppl: what mistakes did u or or partner make that ultimately led to divorce?

a gf is divorcing her hubby of 15 years who is a great guy. even she says so. she's leaving anyway and i know there's no one else..... i told her she's nuts.

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Picklebobble2 · 56-60, M

Oh i left mine following an assault that left me in hospital for a month !
Why would she leave him if things are ok ?
I guess she feels that if she wants something different out of life it's not going to be with her husband.
Sad but it does happen.

cherokeepatti · 61-69, F

sometimes people don't know the details of the marriage because they don't talk about problems in public while they are trying to work it out...that makes for a "surprise" divorce.