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I literally am in that situation all the time. I'm the one who pays for everything and I'm the one who's there for everybody sorry that's happened to you
Lexithegreat · 31-35, F
@SW-User it’s so annoying because I literally have to work everyday. Just me and these people will have a boyfriend, 5 sisters a mom who lives with them but I have to pay they way. Like one time is fine because I’m thinking oh they know the code it’s on them the next time, but nope. I don’t want to be a recluse but I think I’m going to get into live streaming and just save my money for redecorating my rv and enjoy life on my own.

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@Lexithegreat this is that Queen s***!!! You start focusing on you you get to know you and it's awesome and then do dinners by yourself do dates by yourself it's so refreshing. I literally go to dinner and get my nails done by myself I have a whole partner and a child but I make that time for me. Good friends will come I'm in the start over phase in my life where I'm literally finding new people when the time is right. You work too hard for your coin to be just letting anybody come in and not also pay their way you got this ❤️
being · 36-40, F
I step back from friends who don't value my presence and while I am sharing my valuable time with them, they're up to something else. No, nope, I've been there in the past but I'm not staying in such situations now.
As about paying, it's partially on you being exploited. Speak up! Tell her, we need to share the expenses period.
Good luck, you'll find the friend who will be a true friend, courageous of you to going out and trying. Love to you.
As about paying, it's partially on you being exploited. Speak up! Tell her, we need to share the expenses period.
Good luck, you'll find the friend who will be a true friend, courageous of you to going out and trying. Love to you.
JRVanguard · 26-30, M
They just sound like energy vampires
Hope you find some better friends
But also enjoy your you time 🤗
Hope you find some better friends
But also enjoy your you time 🤗
MayorOfCrushtown · M
Yeah, I’ll pass.
Sepia · 36-40, F
True friends aren’t freeloaders…
For the sake of some sort of sisterhood league…I had this friend cordially like a sister whom we treated well.. but she is a sour-grapper, wounded dog loser who cannot accept others success and if we have chance to talk she has nothing to share than being bitter about those who were able to made a better life, her crazy losses , and to those who didn’t make their promises to her like she felt too much entitlement that everyone must help her, and if help was offered she will act like it is gonna be hard for you to make it a way for her to received it…. She isn’t even grateful to accept generosity, very spiteful if she does, it will be like there is a stint of jealousy if you reach out for what she is asking.
Everyone in the group isn’t getting young anymore, we all have priorities and she can’t seem to understand, very demanding. Some of our friends gave up already. She already end it up fighting with four different friends whoever she is in a contract with. All we thought was that she isn’t always going to just copy projects, homework’s, free print outs, just joining group discussions and thesis without original contribution, always likely to sing in chorus.. and has never change even we finished college..and yes I have to say “she finished with us”..
Everyone in the group decided to not give in for her now.. no matter how she tries to keep it clean and discreet. She seems needy but will act like waiting and you are obliged to help her. It’ll always going to stink.
For the sake of some sort of sisterhood league…I had this friend cordially like a sister whom we treated well.. but she is a sour-grapper, wounded dog loser who cannot accept others success and if we have chance to talk she has nothing to share than being bitter about those who were able to made a better life, her crazy losses , and to those who didn’t make their promises to her like she felt too much entitlement that everyone must help her, and if help was offered she will act like it is gonna be hard for you to make it a way for her to received it…. She isn’t even grateful to accept generosity, very spiteful if she does, it will be like there is a stint of jealousy if you reach out for what she is asking.
Everyone in the group isn’t getting young anymore, we all have priorities and she can’t seem to understand, very demanding. Some of our friends gave up already. She already end it up fighting with four different friends whoever she is in a contract with. All we thought was that she isn’t always going to just copy projects, homework’s, free print outs, just joining group discussions and thesis without original contribution, always likely to sing in chorus.. and has never change even we finished college..and yes I have to say “she finished with us”..
Everyone in the group decided to not give in for her now.. no matter how she tries to keep it clean and discreet. She seems needy but will act like waiting and you are obliged to help her. It’ll always going to stink.
Mamapolo2016 · F
It could well be that she means she doesn't have any friends who'll give their all while she gives them a nod.
It could also be she's up to no good. She (even both of them) may not even be a girl!
It could also be she's up to no good. She (even both of them) may not even be a girl!

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@Mamapolo2016 yes sounds very sus
Mamapolo2016 · F
@SW-User We need a sus emoji. Another sentence I never thought I'd type.

SW-User
I still think the best way to meet people is doing things in rl you enjoy 🌺

SW-User
No idea. I don't even have any irl friends
Lexithegreat · 31-35, F
@SW-User Don’t feel bad most people are weird and up to something.

SW-User
@Lexithegreat thank you 😊

SW-User
I'm not looking for anything ...just a laugh or two ..I don't need a lot of friends...can't trust people anyway
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GodQueenSona · F
This is alot but uh yeah I totally hate those people... If I knew anyone like that