Which do you think is best, older woman with younger man or older man with younger woman?

@Flenflyys I'm 37 and my bf is 54. We've been together for 9 years and we've always had a good thing going.

@BijouPleasurette I’m thinking more about the older years. He’s reaching end of life long before you.

@Flenflyys I see what you're saying, but we both like to live for the here and now rather than the future. Maybe we'll start thinking about that in a couple of decades, I dunno.

@BijouPleasurette My parents had a similar age gap and they died within a month of each other after being married for 50 years..

@walabby Sorry to hear that.

@BijouPleasurette Thanks, but they were 80 and 97 years, and it was time...

@walabby My mum is only 54, just a few months younger than my bf. My dad will be 62 this month.

@BijouPleasurette that’s not really a big age gap though.

@Flenflyys Not as big as me and my bf (I'm 37, he's 54).