Does anyone know safe cities/states for women of color? I want to leave these small southern cities.

I was raised in Pinedale Wyoming. I was the only black girl in the whole school in the 2000s. Then my mother moved me to NC which is in the south. Living in these small racist cities is really affecting me mentally. I can’t make friends, everyone acts nasty towards me. White people keep trying to drive my car off the road. They see me as threat. I don’t have a big family as I don’t know my dads side and my mothers side died off when I was a teenager. My mother is retired with her disabled husband so she stays in this racist town but they never really have to leave their place except for food. I just feel like there’s no where safe for black women. Our men at times are a danger to us, and then a lot of yt people are evil to us. I have a bad feeling something is going to happen to me. I also feel like I’m being targeted because everytime I’m driving people flash my car, and I was told to flash them back. Then I decided I’m not going to do that because I already stick out. The other day when I leaving crumble cookie these two young white women blocked me in when I was trying to leave. I honestly just get the vibe they don’t like seeing black women that are pretty or have nicer cars than them. Something about them seeing a black woman drive a Jeep really pisses them off. I didn’t know it was that bad down here cause I just left VA as I was leaving a abusive marriage. This is really draining and I don’t know who to go too. I have to make a living and take care of myself. I can’t let these people intimidate me. I grew up to love everyone and please don’t think I’m making this up this is my life and it happens everyday. I’m shocked this is happening to me in 2023 but this is what happens in the real work in the South. Esp when your out numbered.

SteelHands · 61-69, M

I know what you mean. It's gotten to where even people of our own race act like sh*t towards us for fondness towards people of other races and nobody believes it. Watch me stay silent as the flaming starts.

Damnable race hustlers.

I'm white. Kinda. I can tell some of the replys here aren't understanding where this is being started. Our own race starts making people we talk to angry and then us who aren't racist because we happen to be nearby end up getting the guff over it.

I put up with it for about 50 years. But I'm a dude with military training and not that easy to scare or hurt. Pitting the worst of them against each other, giving the rest a clue I wasn't to be easily gamed worked until I got older.

I got no advice for you but follow your instincts to move when that seems like the only answer. As it too eventually became my only choice.

Sorry some small number of our people are so easily fooled by the worst of yours, and mine. Just know that only 2% make trouble for the rest. Those other weak stupid 40% who become less tolerant in groups suck as well but cowards will be cowards.