Does anyone know safe cities/states for women of color? I want to leave these small southern cities.

I was raised in Pinedale Wyoming. I was the only black girl in the whole school in the 2000s. Then my mother moved me to NC which is in the south. Living in these small racist cities is really affecting me mentally. I can’t make friends, everyone acts nasty towards me. White people keep trying to drive my car off the road. They see me as threat. I don’t have a big family as I don’t know my dads side and my mothers side died off when I was a teenager. My mother is retired with her disabled husband so she stays in this racist town but they never really have to leave their place except for food. I just feel like there’s no where safe for black women. Our men at times are a danger to us, and then a lot of yt people are evil to us. I have a bad feeling something is going to happen to me. I also feel like I’m being targeted because everytime I’m driving people flash my car, and I was told to flash them back. Then I decided I’m not going to do that because I already stick out. The other day when I leaving crumble cookie these two young white women blocked me in when I was trying to leave. I honestly just get the vibe they don’t like seeing black women that are pretty or have nicer cars than them. Something about them seeing a black woman drive a Jeep really pisses them off. I didn’t know it was that bad down here cause I just left VA as I was leaving a abusive marriage. This is really draining and I don’t know who to go too. I have to make a living and take care of myself. I can’t let these people intimidate me. I grew up to love everyone and please don’t think I’m making this up this is my life and it happens everyday. I’m shocked this is happening to me in 2023 but this is what happens in the real work in the South. Esp when your out numbered.

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ElwoodBlues · M

I tried your question with google's "Bard" AI. I hope it helps!

The prompt: what are the safest US cities for black women and why?

Determining the "safest" cities for any demographic group is a complex task, as safety is nuanced and influenced by various factors like individual experiences, socioeconomic status, and access to resources. However, considering several indicators, we can identify cities that generally exhibit positive trends for Black women's safety:

Cities with low crime rates:

Raleigh, North Carolina: This city boasts a relatively low overall crime rate and ranks highly in personal safety, with a strong sense of community and a focus on diversity and inclusion initiatives.

Cedar Rapids, Iowa: With a steadily decreasing crime rate and a focus on community policing, Cedar Rapids provides a relatively safe environment for Black women.

Plano, Texas: Located in the Dallas-Fort Worth Metroplex, Plano offers a safe haven with a low violent crime rate and a vibrant, diverse community.

Cities with strong economic opportunities:

Atlanta, Georgia: As a major Black cultural hub, Atlanta offers a strong economy with diverse career opportunities and resources specifically tailored to support Black women entrepreneurs and professionals.

Washington, D.C.: With its high concentration of government jobs and educational institutions, Washington D.C. offers promising economic prospects and a large Black community with established support networks.

Charlotte, North Carolina: Boasting a robust financial sector and a burgeoning tech scene, Charlotte provides diverse economic opportunities, particularly for Black women in STEM fields.

Cities with high accessibility to healthcare:

Minneapolis, Minnesota: This city boasts a robust healthcare system with numerous hospitals and clinics, ensuring access to quality medical care for Black women.

Seattle, Washington: With its focus on innovation and healthcare access, Seattle provides a supportive environment for Black women with access to specialized healthcare services.

Boston, Massachusetts: Renowned for its world-class medical institutions, Boston offers excellent healthcare resources for Black women, including access to specialized care and research initiatives.

Cities with strong social support networks:

Durham, North Carolina: Home to historically Black colleges and universities (HBCUs) and a vibrant Black community, Durham provides a strong social support network and a sense of belonging for Black women.

Baltimore, Maryland: Despite facing certain challenges, Baltimore's strong Black community offers extensive resources and support networks for Black women, including mentorship programs and advocacy groups.

New Orleans, Louisiana: This culturally rich city boasts a tight-knit Black community with a strong sense of resilience and support, offering a welcoming environment for Black women.

It's important to remember that these are just general trends, and individual experiences can vary greatly within each city. Ultimately, the "safest" city for a Black woman depends on her specific needs and priorities. Further research and consideration of individual circumstances are crucial before making any decisions.

Yeah so it's semi interesting, but the fact that Baltimore appeared on one of the lists makes me a little dubious.

Lexiitexii · 31-35, F

@ElwoodBlues Yeah and Atlanta cause I just saw a lady in Atlanta listing a bunch of places you don’t want to go because your not safe. It’s kinda nerve racking because while I’m trying to escape racism or go to places with less racism, I’m also trying to avoid crime riddled, drug riddled places. Honestly feel like the blk community needs help creating safe neighborhoods for blk women and children. I also feel like when those were getting built they were burned down to the ground in history but racist. So now women and children of today are starting to feel it. A lot of us don’t have money to be overcharged and moving into yt communities that most of us are not welcome in.