What kind of relationship are you used to?

Have the people in your life typically been quiet or argumentative, reserved or compassionate, tactile or hands off, angry, nervous, anxious, fearful, or happy and easy going. Adventurous or stay at home? Religious, spiritual, or agnostic? Have they been invasive or allowed you to have your own space and freedom. Knowing that, what kind of relationship would you be most comfortable with? The same thing or something different? More of one thing than another. What was lacking?