My ex-fiance just messaged me on FB after 7 years of no-contact....What would you do?

...>_>;;

Assume they say "hi how are you anyway?"

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Sounds like something changed in her life recently. You are probably different people now so should not assume anything would/should happen. Only reply if this is totally healthy for you, otherwise you don't owe her anything