How to get over being jealous

I always find myself getting jealous when he is messaging other girls because idk what is being said. He doesn't like me being jealous and neither do it. How can I just control it

Things have happened before with him messaging others and I am just scared it'll all happen again... I want to trust him but I do not trust them at all

This page is a permanent link to the reply below and its nested replies. See all post replies »

SW-User

If "he" refers to your boyfriend, you should discuss what messaging other girls includes because often, that's how they get side hoes and all that, I see it all the time in college

bijouxbroussard · F

Why's the girl the "hoe" if [i]he's[/i] the one cheating ? I never understand that reasoning...