A View on Dating

When it comes to dating I'm pretty good at reading people and taking hints, but I prefer solid confirmation on whether there's interest or not. Even if it hurts. Cause I think it hurts more to leave someone wondering if they've read the situation correctly or are just making assumptions about the situation. Cause if I know for a matter of fact someone is not interested in me, that allows me to immediately move on from the situation and not worry about it rather than dragging things out by making me wonder if I misread the situation or not.

Just a random thought on dating in general btw. This isn't referring to anything specific.

Top | Newest First | Oldest First

PrincessRoarBuddy · F

True I guess..

But the person can always ask instead of thinking/making assumptions as than the other person could say at that time if she or he likes that person. It is difficult to ask such things though..

And maybe some people are not truly honest in how they feel..maybe some want something so lie and make someone believe/think that he or she is liking someone but instead just wanting sex or something..

This comment is hidden. Show Comment

MasterDvdC · 70-79, M

These days I would only date females that are willing/eager to get naked and have all kinds of crazy sex right off the back.

View 6 more replies »

Highskirt · 56-60, M

@MasterDvdC it says i need to wait for you to respond

MasterDvdC · 70-79, M

@Highskirt Try again now. I've responded.

Highskirt · 56-60, M

@MasterDvdC

[image/video deleted]

PrincessVelvet · F

Honesty is always the best policy. Especially when it comes to yourself. Call it as you see it.

This message was deleted by its author.

View 1 more replies »

Royrogers · 61-69, M

@CestManan I think there is a lot in what you say.

tmmaier · 51-55, F

@CestManan I agree completely!! I do not engage in such posts but have thought the exact same thing when reading. Some seem to want their cake and eat it too. There is no such thing as perfection but some create a grocery list of qualities they are shopping for and cry when they cannot find them with ease.

CestManan · 46-50, F

@tmmaier It is like doing anything in life.
Maybe 80% of the process is work and dealing with BS and only 20% is actually getting to enjoy whatever one was wanting.

But with dating specifically - most of the ones who want a perfect partner handed to them on a silver platter, yet they do not have much to offer themselves. It is tempting to say, "Okay so you keep turning down opportunities but what are you bringing to the table?"

Add a comment...