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Is it bad that i fall for woman so fast?

It seems like i get very emotionally attached to women if i talk to a girl and start to get to know them and i usually get hurt by the end of it. I tend to feel like the person i like is always going to leave me to and i feel physically sick when people leave me.
Shaman · 26-30
It's a psychological problem, you can get over it
lewiso123 · 26-30, M
Okay thank you for your comment i'll look into it.
GoldenWorm · 51-55, M
Yes, it's bad. Your sense of attachment should grow as you know someone better and share intimacy. Starting off very attached is a type of emotional neediness and, frankly, tends to be abusive towards the person who isn't you.
lewiso123 · 26-30, M
Okay i think i should try to change how i am and get less attached and maybe look into it more.
SW-User
not healthy. getting attached is kind of bad espeically really quickly because people come and go. youll learn not to get attached so quickly. i too get that way with people and then get hurt when they are no longer there. you have to have more of a life and not get too attached or clingy.
BellaLocura · 51-55, F
You are just a sensitive person, maybe an empath. We tend to feel A LOT and get attached quickly. Over time you can learn to temper it, although it's not always easy.
lewiso123 · 26-30, M
Okay interesting thank you for the comment.
Th1nkF1rst · 70-79, M
bad... you're equating their niceness with attraction... you don't do this with guys do you?
so stop it... just because you need female closeness doesn't mean all are available
curiosi · 61-69, F
It's not healthy, it's co-dependent and it will prevent you from finding peace. Go to the library and read a book Co-dependent No More by Melodie Beattie.
lewiso123 · 26-30, M
I shall search for it. Thank you.
You have TMS. I've had it before. I'm cured now. I think. I learned after a few heartbreaks.
lewiso123 · 26-30, M
Interesting i'll look into it.
@lewiso123: Ted Mosby Syndrome, in case you're wondering.
Na it's good to express emotions girls love it...
lewiso123 · 26-30, M
Hmm okay i'm getting mixed comments.
Goralski · 56-60, M
At my age that's d only way ta b

 
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