This is actually two questions...

They are two different stories/explanations...
1.How can I get over feelings of jealousy?

2. How to tell if a guy is flirting with you?

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CaptainCanadia · 41-45, M

1. You need to be secure in yourself to be jealous. Even if someone has something you clearly do not... it's not about trying to take things from other people. But instead figuring out how to better yourself. Kind of a change in perspective.

2. Constantly teasing and making jokes with you, touching you or close-to touching you, lots of eye contact, smiles, and 'open' body language and relaxed posture.