why do I get messages when I don't want to talk and none when I want to talk?

It's a strange reverse law of the universe.

Many times when I didn't want a gf women were coming up and asking me out... When I wanted a gf, couldn't get one to save my life.

I dunno but I always read your questions in SpongeBob's voice because of your avatar.

I think that's just the way it works

So, which way is the teeter-totter right now?