Are you too stubborn to reach out first after an argument?

I'm not being unfair but it's like talking to a brick wall with him

@Adelh91: There has to be willingness on his part to work through issues, or you'll never progress as a couple. I don't know the specifics. I do know that it pays to be assertive but not aggressive. He won't respond well to nagging or dramatics. (Not that I'm assuming either on your part).

@adshaw: I think we've pretty much just broke it off