Are you too stubborn to reach out first after an argument?

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Actually no. Even if the other person was clearly in the wrong I am always the person trying to patch things up, make amends and apologize. That's always been Me.

AliceMortem · 31-35, F

I can't do it any more. I've been walked all over too many times

butterfly1013 · 26-30, F

@Adelh91: I understand and actually reaching out first sometimes makes things worse or makes the person even madder at least it did in my situation some time ago.