Are you too stubborn to reach out first after an argument?

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Only if I don't care if I never see the person again. If the person matters, I reach out as often as needed until the issue is resolved.

Dec. 3/16
7:54 am

AliceMortem · 31-35, F

I can't resolve it. He needs counseling

Serenitree · F

@Adelh91: if you can't resolve it and it's bringing you down, walk away. If he's an important part of your life, you could tell him that when he get help you will be happy to work on the problems

If he's not important to you, simply cut him loose.

Dec. 3/16
8:34 am.

AliceMortem · 31-35, F

@Serenitree: I'll be seeing him tomorrow so I will have a proper chat then and try and make sure he doesn't change the subject. He uses a lot of avoidance tactics