Are you too stubborn to reach out first after an argument?

It's not even that I think I'm right I just can't deal with him right now

Sure, so just go cool off and if you think you were wrong make sure to apologize later.

@Halcyon: I'm not wrong. Neither of us are we just have different needs

Then reach out after you cool off. Agree to disagree with each other. Most roadblocks in a relationship are because neither person is willing to budge. It's simple, decide to budge. Where the real problem comes in is when you find yourself being the only person who budges time and time again. Relationships are entirely about give and take.

@Halcyon: If I don't budge then it's over basically

That is most definitely a possibility.