I am now Single

How could I stay with a man who has no sense of permanence? For almost six years I cling to it and introduce it to his life..I have cared and even left everything, ignore all has thrown on me. I was the happiest and thought I have nothing to worry on his side. I thought his arms are my home, it makes me fall asleep on it easily. They say relationship must learn how to compromise.. It was hard but accepted how it was part of our everyday situation. I accepted so much but in end I was the one being compromised….I got hurt by the sudden changes. When loveones left went on my own and cried hard…now getting used to it but still so many questions and words. If he can come to me I would but why he couldn’t do it? It was all unfair. Can’t wait to get up and forget everything.

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Saucylover · 26-30, F

I just left a relationship of five years. I completely moved out two weeks ago, and I left everything behind. Including our picture and dog. It hurts so much. But I know I will get through this. It is hard right now. I am here with you because we are going through the same thing. He became a different person. He started emotionally abusing me, and he never compromised. EVER. I gave up my identity and self-worth for the sliver of love he gave me, when he felt like it, of course. It sucks. I hate that I gave so much of myself to him. I gave him my virginity, abortions, everything. And he can look at me like I am nothing but a piece of the ground he walks on. It sucks like hell, but it's better to leave now before you give them even more years to hurt you. Don't go back. You will regret it. I am currently resisting the urge to go back. It's hard, but you can do it.

Robynthebeautiful

@Saucylover Keep repeating to yourself.
Go back, to what?
Go back, to what?
You should get your answer.

Saucylover · 26-30, F

@Robynthebeautiful Hi Robyn. I actually left him at the end of April. I haven't looked back. I've been no contact for months now. And I am so much happier. Honestly, happier than I've been in a long time. I wanted to leave an update on this post because I got a notification. Also, its crazy to see how hurt I was, and now I don't even think about him. Never thought the day would come, but with a lot of self love, I was able to finally let go.