Why is that every time I meet a guy they end up disinterested after a while?

I went on a date a month ago again I never heard from again. He said he had a great time with me and him of the heart song one told him about me. I don’t know if I told him that I am autistic or what but I didn’t hear from him after two weeks. I gave them two weeks to respond and then I just gave up and move on. I’ve been dumped twice because of my aspergers. I’ve done nothing but been a great girlfriend and I have screwed up and made mistakes but come on! I met this guy two weeks ago and he stopped talking to me.
One of my relatives told me I should just text someone that is autistic like I can because I’m wasting my time with men that don’t give a shit and most don't want to date a special needs woman. Ouch that hurt. Should I just date an autistic man? Or someone with special needs?
I just turned 28 last month and I’m two years away from being 30!

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th3r0n · 41-45, M

You should be open about who you are with everyone, don't hide it, and just do your best

Realistically, there are women who are gorgeous and have no health issues and still get treated like that. Look for a caring man.

ElizabethBabe1994 · 26-30, F

@th3r0n I did tell them that I’m autistic

th3r0n · 41-45, M

@ElizabethBabe1994 then they probably used you and left…but not all men are like that

Your problem is less unique than you think, a lot of guys are just like that sadly

ElizabethBabe1994 · 26-30, F

@th3r0n Tell me about it. I’ve been used so many times and I’ve been too stupid to see it.

th3r0n · 41-45, M

@ElizabethBabe1994 emotions do that to intelligent people all the same as disabled people

Wisdom helps, intelligence doesn’t seem to with that

ElizabethBabe1994 · 26-30, F

@th3r0n Even my older brothers was telling me they we’re probably just being nice to me because I have a disability and didn’t want to deal with conflict and just used me to get ahead of themselves but it isn’t my fault. Damn….that was…harsh.
But I guess they have a point. Brothers can be harsh but I know they mean well. I wish I never had this stupid disability!

th3r0n · 41-45, M

@ElizabethBabe1994 disabilities suck, but your dating experience isn’t much different from that of my female friends, whose IQ averages at least 115 if not 120

They’re book smart, they’re capable, but they still get played a lot

ElizabethBabe1994 · 26-30, F

@th3r0n We’ll that sucks but I guess we just gotta wait until we at least expect it.