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Aidan · 26-30, F
It's better for me to. If I were in a relationship with someone obese, being health obsessed, I'd always try to help them lose weight.
Theo182 · 36-40, M
That's understandable and fair.
Goralski · 56-60, M
Just what a boyfriend wants ta hear haaaaa
If he's obese and gross, yes.
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Theo182 · 36-40, M
Inbetween stuff?
@Theo182: ugh nevermind.
Theo182 · 36-40, M
@MorbidCynic: I sincerely hope my question didn't disgust you as much as it looks like. Wow!
BellaLocura · 51-55, F
At a certain point, yes, because weight is a pretty good reflection of lifestyle. I would want someone with a similar lifestyle to my own, for compatibility reasons.
JaggedLittlePill · 46-50, F
Weight can be a reflection of lifestyle but in most cases is really a reflection of genes and metabolism and other such reasons. Being overweight is not an automatic indication that someone overeats or that they do not attempt a healthy lifestyle.
BellaLocura · 51-55, F
That's why I said "at a certain point". I realize that genetics are involved, although in the U.S. I would not say most cases of obesity are genetics. It is well known that a large percentage of Americans lead a sedentary lifestyle and eat far more than what is necessary to maintain a healthy weight.
SW-User
I would NOT reject a guy based on weight. However, if he was too heavy to participate in the simple things in life, that would be a problem for me, as it would hinder our relationship.
ManicMortuary · 31-35, F
At the end of the day, dick is dick. Who cares about the meat bag attached to it....
I'm totally kidding. I wouldn't reject a guy based on his weight, just seems so trivial
I'm totally kidding. I wouldn't reject a guy based on his weight, just seems so trivial
Bubbles · 36-40, F
I guess there is a limit, but overall weight doesn't bother me. I would say if he is only skin and bones yes, or so obese that he can't walk yes I would reject.
MaliaAgain · 36-40, F
Maybe if they are like super tiny... Id feel like im molesting a kid
PrincessVelvet · F
Certainly. Well skinny not so much. Chubby yes. I work to keep my weight stable in a healthy range. I want my man to do the same.
Goralski · 56-60, M
Most are gonna lie haaaaaa
SW-User
It depends how big he is
Theo182 · 36-40, M
This question might look as though I'm trying to trap people onto coming across as shallow, but that really isn't the point of the question, I can assure you. I just want to know if weight in any form is a general issue.
MaliaAgain · 36-40, F
In that case you should reword your question. What u asked is not really what you want to know
shimmeringrose · 46-50, F
i've known a large, cuddly, and tender man and i can only say that it's too bad that we're related.
coolboy86 · 36-40, M
most women now are chubby anyway